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Part 8:  When do you “play to win?”
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• Part 8: Playing to Win
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By Thomas Houser

I may have just answered that, but let me give you a little more detail.  When I coach a high school match, the finals of JO tournament, the finals of a 5-day team camp, etc., I coach to WIN.  If only 6 girls get into the match, or 8, or 9, then that's the way it is. If we can win with 13 girls playing, then so be it.  But, in those situations, if a girl or her parents would rather her play, jeopardizing the team's success, then they're being selfish, they aren't looking out for the team, and we've got a problem.  We teach our girls that every team player would prefer to watch the team win from the bench, rather than enter the match at the wrong time and the team lose.  I've seen soft-hearted coaches THIS PAST SEASON put weak players in a crucial game, only to lose the entire match.   No one benefits from that tragedy.  The players who “lost” the match are especially damaged.  Personally, I, Coach Houser, would rather be in the bleachers, or standing on my head, or be dressed like a clown, or be in my car.......WHATEVER, if it would give my team a better chance to win.  Shouldn’t we ALL feel that way?

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